Searching For That Heart Of Gold...

Luck and social connectedness...

Having lots of social connections can also manifest as ‘luck’.

For example, most people get jobs through people they know, or a ‘friend of a friend.’

Of course, the more people you know, the better connected you are and the more likelihood something ‘lucky’ will happen.

Luck is so often a numbers game.

Social activity and intelligence

There is even evidence that socializing can raise your intelligence level – your IQ.

Yes, socializing really can increase thinking ability and exercise the mind.

So seeing more people can boost your physical health, offset and even prevent depression to some extent, and possibly improve your IQ and your LQ (luck quotient!) into the bargain.

• The toxic effects of loneliness are confirmed by insurance statistics and numerous scientific studies.

For example, one study of 972 Johns Hopkins medical students used results of personality tests to classify the students into one of five types.

Thirty years later, when they checked health status, they found that students classified as ‘loners’ had sixteen times more cancer than people who vented their emotions to friends.

Study after study has shown that feeling connected with other people is extremely important for physical and mental health.

Suicide, alcoholism and mental illness rates are much higher among people living alone.

Researcher Oscar Ybarra and his colleagues at the University of Michigan explored the possibility that social interaction improves mental functioning.

In a series of related studies, they tested the participants’ level of cognitive functioning, comparing it to the frequency of participants’ social interactions.

• They found that people who engaged in social interaction displayed higher levels of cognitive performance than the control group.

• Social interaction aided intellectual performance.
  

“Social interaction,” the authors suggest, “helps to exercise people’s minds.

People reap cognitive benefits from socializing.”

They speculate that social interaction ‘exercises’ cognitive processes that are measured on intellectual tasks.

“It is possible,” the authors conclude, “that as people engage socially and mentally with others, they receive relatively immediate cognitive boosts.”

So it’s no surprise that they have created ‘Increase your social circle’ at Hypnosis Downloads...search for it there..

It uses deep hypnosis and relaxation to encourage the unconscious mind to start building friendships and connecting to people.

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How To Flirt With Confidence And Style

Flirting can be great fun, yet many people are too shy or nervous to enjoy this wonderful social experience. Even if they spot signs that someone may be flirting with them, they are too anxious to go with the flow and enjoy it.

Have you ever read lists of 'flirting tips', how to spot signs of flirting, or body language books?

Many people have, yet are still not confident with flirting.

The trouble with learning flirting tips, or trying to remember what various forms of flirting body language actually mean is that it is all intellectual - a 'thinking' process.

Flirting is a 'doing' process.

What's much better than flirting tips, or learning about body language?

Because you need to relax to flirt well, the best way to learn about flirting is to prepare your mind to relax when you have a chance to flirt.

Using this Flirt with Confidence hypnosis mp3 download, you will quickly and effortlessly learn flirting skills - skills that will not desert you in the heat of the moment!

Flirting is a way of signaling to someone you like them.

When you flirt with confidence people feel flattered that you like them and you get to showcase your own energy and confidence - two features which are always attractive to others.

Rather than a form of manipulation (which is sometimes what a person who can't / won't flirt feels it to be), flirting is really a form of honesty as you display your interest in another person.

Confident flirting has the added bonus of making other people feel good.

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How To Get That First Love Feeling Again...

When you first get together it is almost as if there is a magnetic attraction between you - your mind focuses on your partner almost all the time, and when you are together it feels just incredible.

The suggestions in this download will help remind your unconscious mind of the excitement you used to feel.

When you, or you and your partner use the session, those original feelings can come back powerfully, returning the fun and excitement and reminding you of why the two of you felt so attracted to one another in the first place.

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How To Be A Persuader.. Become Persuasive...

Research by Dr Briony Pulford and Professor Andrew Colman of the University of Leicester England made a number of interesting observations.

Using an experiment involving participants who had to look at nine photographs of faces, then work with each other to agree which e-fit type picture showed the best likeness, the researchers found that when people communicate beliefs to one another they express degrees of confidence proportional to the certainty with which they hold those beliefs.

Further, the people being communicated to tend to judge the reliability of the information they are being given according to the confidence with which it is expressed.

Fifty six participants worked in pairs, with one partner being shown a good e-fit likeness of one of the faces – in order to induce high confidence and accuracy of identification – while the other partner was given a weak e-fit with a poor resemblance of one or more of the faces.

Participants were not shown each other’s e-fits but were allowed time to discuss which face from the set they wanted to choose as the suspected criminal.

When they both chose the right face, they were rewarded with 40p ($1)

When they both agreed on a face but it was the wrong one, they received just 20p (50c)

If they chose different faces they received no reward.

The number of times the person with the strong evidence persuaded the other to agree on the correct face was significantly higher than the number of times the person with the weaker e-fit persuaded the other to choose the incorrect face.

Psychologists have confirmed with these tests that people who believe in and are confident in what they are saying are more likely to persuade others.

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Approaching women with confidence

Approaching women can feel like the hardest thing in the world at times.

You may have been normal, funny and charming at other times, but find that you become paralyzed and shut down completely when it comes to approaching women.

So how can you build the sort of confidence you need to talk to women?

How can you stop that awful 'coyote in the headlights' paralysis?

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How hypnosis can help

The thing is, regardless of how terrified you get when approaching women, there are times in your life when you talk to other people without even thinking about it.

If you are chatting to a member of your family, or a good friend, you are not worrying about 'sounding cool', or 'being funny'; you are simply talking!

Using hypnosis, you can take this ability and transfer it to the 'chatting up women' situation.

It's not like you need to learn something completely new; you just need access to your ability in that situation.

That's why 'Approach Women with Confidence' will quickly help you talk to women and feel confidence.

Download it now using the button below and really enjoy yourself next time you approach a woman...

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Be Confident With Attractive Women...

Program your mind to be confident with attractive women

Women everywhere say they find confident men attractive.

And generally, they don't mean the loud obnoxious guy who shows off constantly.

It may be that you've found yourself getting agitated, anxious, self conscious or shy when talking to attractive women.

Maybe you feel like you're on display or you have to act in a way which is nothing like 'the real you'.

You may feel like an idiot, tongue tied or as if you keep saying the 'wrong thing'.

What do women like?

When asked, the majority of women express a preference for men who exude quiet confidence and so don't have to try hard all the time.

Natural confidence speaks of power and potency.

You may be glad to hear that even if you're not Brad Pitt in the looks department.

But You can develop a confident style which will propel you upwards in the popularity stakes with attractive women.

'Be confident with attractive women' will change all that.

When you start to relax and treat the woman you find attractive as a normal human being then anxiety melts away and you can enjoy being yourself with her.

The 'Be confident with attractive women' hypnotic session will program your mind to relax so you can be spontaneous and exude attractive confidence.

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Reassuring Reasons why Hypnosis is your Friend

Believe the hype or think for yourself

For too long hypnosis has had a bad or 'difficult' press.
If a person doesn't understand something they have 3 options open to them.

1) They might be skeptical and therefore save the trouble of looking further and possibly benefiting.

2) They may conclude it is dangerous and to be avoided at all costs.

3) They may spend time discovering the truth behind the hype.

If you don't know much about a topic it's easy to be suspicious.

Some people assume hypnosis is akin to a carnival side show, others consider it mystic mumbo jumbo or 'mind control.'

For those who look beyond the hype the truth is far more illuminating.

The most powerful tool you possess.

There are potentially huge benefits for those who use hypnosis as part of everyday life.

When you understand hypnosis you start to see its potential to improve human performance in the physical, emotional and intellectual realms.

For me, rumor, gossip and suspicion weren't good enough.

I determined to learn all I could about hypnosis - I learned every fact and practiced every technique under the sun.

I took several training courses - some good, some terrible.

I invested thousands of hours of devoted study to hypnosis and discovered just what is possible.

I hypnotized friends, neighbors and work colleagues.

Hypnosis greatly changed things for me on a personal level.

How hypnosis helped me...

I used to be shy. Thanks to hypnosis I can now talk to thousands at a time and can approach anybody calmly and confidently.

I used to have poor concentration and procrastinate; thanks to hypnosis I can instantly motivate myself.

I used to find physical work outs and exercise exhausting but because of hypnosis I am now in the best shape of my life.

Incidentally I also stopped myself blushing with hypnosis.

Now if I have a difficult call or conversation coming up, something I may naturally feel reluctant to do (you know the kind of thing) ...

I spontaneously self hypnotize and rehearse the upcoming situation feeling good, with myself remaining calm.

In this way I habitually set my own emotional 'blue prints' for up coming situations.

Having said that it's naturally that some people have concerns or half digested 'hand me down' ideas regarding hypnosis.

A common one is the one about 'mind control.'

However what does this really mean?

Why you are more in control of yourself in hypnosis...

If someone expresses concerns about being 'controlled' in hypnosis what they mean is they don't want to be like a robot, an automaton that is forced to obey the every whim of the hypnotist.

We can't help but influence others but we don't control them.

To understand why you need to understand hypnosis better.

So what is hypnosis like?

Hypnosis isn't like a coma.

It's not unconsciousness - more a subtle shifting of consciousness.

In hypnosis, you can still think logically but you also have access to the 'software' of your mind so that you can update instinctive emotional and physical responses.

In fact the hypnotized subject (not the hypnotist) calls the shots.

When I hypnotize someone I need to go at their speed and respond to their needs and expectations.

Hypnosis will give you more control in your own life because of what it enables you to do.

How can I be so sure?

Because over the decades I've seen all kinds of people, all ages and from all backgrounds turn their lives around thanks to hypnosis.

When you use hypnosis for yourself it improves confidence in all kinds of ways.

When you use it to change other's lives it just blows you away.

This is what I mean.

When I first hypnotized someone to feel no sensation in a painful arthritic arm it was an incredible feeling.

When I first cured life long phobias quickly and comfortably I was astounded.

When I stopped hardened alcoholics from drinking and even got a heroin addict off the stuff and back into mainstream life again I started to feel angry that people could just associate hypnosis with entertainment.

With the aid of hypnosis I (and many people I have trained and worked with) have helped severely depressed people feel strong and positive again.

The rewards and satisfactions are hard to describe.

I'm going to take a stand against ignorance and short sightedness around hypnosis and here's why.

Why you need to reclaim hypnosis for yourself

Hypnosis is your birthright.

It's nature's optimum learning tool.

In fact to learn and perform anything well you need to experience a natural focusing of attention, a natural kind of hypnosis.

To be successful hypnosis needs to be your companion and friend.

Successful people use it naturally all the time because hypnosis is natural.

It's the way we learn new responses.

Unlike medications its side effects are purely positive - one expectant mother I worked with to feel relaxed during child birth later reported that she was also more relaxed when flying!

Hypnosis is easy to learn and every body can benefit.

Hypnosis is a safe environment to 'try out' new behaviors and emotional patterns before you experience them for real.

So the young man can ask a woman out for a date many times in calm relaxed hypnosis so that by the time he does it for real it feels real and natural and relaxed.

Sports people who use hypnosis learn new quicker and more accurately.

So hypnosis gives you more control of yourself and your life, it's natural and gives you instant benefits and it's a way of 'trying on' and establishing new patterns of emotional response and behavior.

Hypnosis enables you to develop yourself as a human being.

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Become more attractive To Men... Universal Attractors...

What do men really find attractive in women?

Some women do seem to just have it - they just seem to know how to attract men.

But what's more important is how to attract good men who are likely to stick around.

Many glib answers perhaps spring to mind about what men find attractive in women, but there is also a fair bit of research that gives us a clear idea.

What men find attractive in women

Of course different men find different women and different types of women attractive for different reasons and a long term male partner will like you, partly, for your uniqueness.

I say 'partly' because there are actually some 'attraction universals' that all men everywhere find more attractive about women.

It's not always easy being a man

Times have changed for men in the western world.

Men want to feel like men in a world where many jobs can now be done equally well by men or women.

Men want to feel competent, strong, clever and brave.

A women who can make a man feel these things about himself will be highly attractive to him.

This doesn't mean that you have to falsely flatter a guy but rather recognize where these aspects appear in his character and mention them.

But don't men want 'willing' sexy young and beautiful?

Well perhaps some men do, up to a point.

But to attract a man you don't have to have movie star looks, or instantly show you're ready to jump all over him.

In fact many men will be turned off a women who dresses too sexually all the time or who constantly flirts with his friends.

Why?

Because if a man is to invest his long term resources into a serious relationship he wants to be sure his DNA is going to be passed on exclusively.

If you act too sexy too much of the time it will make him feel that you are willing to be with any guy.

Men like to feel exclusively chosen by a potential partner just as women do.

If you are too obviously willing to jump into bed with a guy a part of him will be thinking that this is how you are generally.

What about physical universal attractors?

Just like women men look for indicators that a partner is a good genetic bet.

Signs of health (and therefore good DNA) include: Lustrous hair, the classic and universally attractive 70% ratio: meaning that waist is 70% size of hips, clear skin, good muscle tone, large eyes, smaller jaw and fuller lips.

Youth is valued in women because youth is an indication of fertility.

All cosmetic procedures and applications seek to enhance visual signs of fertility (high estrogen levels) such as lip gloss, eye make up, skin foundation etc.

But wait a second... What if I'm not a classic young beauty?

Enhancing what you have physically

Women of any age can be highly attractive to men.

Keeping fit and not being too over weight or under weight, dressing well and taking care of hygiene and grooming all contribute to your attractiveness where men are concerned but the way you look is only a part of it.

To really attract a man you need to know how to make him feel great about himself.

Expert flirting, showing an interest, smiling whilst holding eye contact, all show confidence.

And confidence is incredibly attractive in a women.

Men like confident women

There is much talk of women being attracted to confident men but men also like women who are fun, enthusiastic, humorous and confident.

Why? Because when you are confident you send out signals with the message.

I am sure I have something worth having.

And you are lucky to know me.

Men don't like to be told what to do or to be totally dominated or feel controlled but they do like a woman who shows she has her own mind at the same time as being able to appreciate him.

Men like women who laugh

Men like women who laugh: especially women who laugh at their jokes (1)

The research tells us that men find women who create lots of humor are great as friends but they are more attracted to women who laugh at their jokes if they are looking for a romantic partner.

This doesn't mean you have to fake laugh at all his unfunnies but showing you appreciate his humor when it is funny will make you much more attractive to him.

In this Be more attractive to men session you'll discover the 'magic combination' that makes men want you more.

Hypnosis and becoming more attractive to men

Hypnosis is the perfect way to build unconscious confidence in your own desirability and attractiveness.

This wonderfully relaxing hypnosis session Be More Attractive to Men will build your confidence in your own desirability and when you feel more attractive to men on the inside that is going to instantly translate to increased attractiveness on the outside.

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6 key psychological traits of self-made millionaires

Get a Millionaire Mind-Set

Everyone wants to be rich.

Don't they?

So why do only a few reach those heights?

How do millions of people work their fingers to the bone yet end up broke?

It's not about luck...

Most millionaires will tell you that luck played a large part in their success - and you could stop there, assuming that unless you get lucky, you won't get rich.

But then if you look a little deeper, you uncover something else - something all successful people have in common - the millionaire mind-set.

And even more interestingly, millionaires don't have much else in common - there's no standard for academic achievement ...

Richard Branson and many other entrepreneurs are dyslexic, there's no commonality of family background, there's no 'special knowledge' that these people possess.

It's about your mindset

No, when it comes down to it, success is down to your mindset - the habits, attitudes and behaviors you use every day that move you, step-by-step, towards millionaire status.

This Millionaire Mindset 6-part hypnosis program is designed to program your subconscious mind with these common attitudes of millionaires.

Absorb the 6 key psychological traits of self-made millionaires

The Millionaire Mindset program contains these 6 success-shaping sessions:

1) Create Winning Business Ideas - enter a creative space within your mind where the money-making ideas will flow like molten gold.

2) Create Real Business Passion - generate a powerful deep unconscious drive for your business idea that will propel you forward.

3) Build Unshakable Self Belief - every successful entrepreneur has solid self confidence and self belief. Build yours so you can beat the nay-sayers and weather the storms with ease.

4) Generate Laser Focus - you don't get to the top by drifting off and thinking about other things. Get the full power of your unconscious mind behind your goal.

5) Develop an Unstoppable Work Ethic - anyone who tells you becoming a millionaire is not hard work has never done it. This session will make work your most enjoyable pastime.

6) Create Unbeatable Optimism - as you travel your business path, you will come up against obstacles. There will be times when you wonder if you should give up.

This session will give you a solid bedrock of optimism, so you just know it's going to work, even on the darkest of days.

Get started now!

There is a vast flowing river of money in the world - you just need to know where and when to dip your bucket in and start collecting it.

It's like having access to a Super Gold Mine filled with Golden Nuggets, and all you need to do is shovel them straight into your bank account!

You can even carve out a diversion and direct large volumes of that money river in your direction.

That's all the super rich have done.

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Attract Good Luck, Be Lucky, Become A Luck Magnet!

Some times things just work out well just when you didn't expect them to seemingly against all the odds.

And this we put down to 'luck'.

'Boy that was lucky!'

But becoming a luck magnet isn't just a matter of good luck.

Or, to put it way luck isn't just something that happens to us but something we can make happen.

What if luck were like a muscle that you can develop and encourage and make grow.

Remember the saying: 'Fortune favors the brave' Luck is so often a product of our behaviors and attitudes and what often appears to be just chance is actually the visible appearance and product of hard work, positive expectation, calm mind and strong intuition.

The result of these attributes can often seem like luck especially to others.

Luck is something we can encourage into our lives and it's lucky that some valuable research has been carried out on luck.

Richard Wiseman looked at the real secret behind the success of exceptionally lucky people.

He found it to be a blend of attitude and behavior.

He found that lucky people shared these traits.

Firstly they chase opportunity.

If you don't expose yourself to luck you are unlikely to find it.

So lucky people increase their chances of luck by exposing themselves to opportunity.

If you make a sales call you are more likely to make some sales than if you don't make any calls at all!

Secondly Wiseman found lucky people will trust their intuitions and act upon them.

We pick up many more signals from the environment than we consciously realize.

When you 'pick up' something but it doesn't make it to consciousness then you will get a 'feeling' that something is a good idea or not a good idea.

This feeling is an intuition.

By learning to act on them you will promote what seems to be luck in your life.

To develop intuition your mind needs to be calm more of the time.

Thirdly Wiseman found that lucky people expect to be lucky.

If you expect positive things then you are looking out for them and therefore more likely to find them.

What we expect in life had huge implications regarding what we actually get.

This is why placebo medications work.

And lastly he found that lucky people can feel lucky even when others can't see that there is any luck.

They know how to positively re-frame what seems to be bad luck into good luck.

They see the opportunities when things seem to have gone wrong.

They see so called 'failure' as constructive feedback and of course this keeps them with a more positive expectancy about the future.

We call these four characteristics luck magnets.

And this session is going to encourage you to develop the strengthening power of these magnets to increase your power to attract more luck into your life.

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15 Minutes To More Self Confidence

Improve your self confidence in 15 minutes

I used to be frighteningly under confident in social situations. And although people who know me now would never believe I used to doubt myself so much I literally had to learn confidence until it became a natural part of me. I can tell you relaxed optimistic confidence is just, well so much more fun.

Here I'll tell you about the things that made the most difference to my confidence levels...

Some people have naturally high levels of confidence but everybody can learn to be more confident

Firstly, it's important to get a clear idea of what self confidence really means, otherwise you won't know when you've got it! So, self confidence means:

1) Being calm. For every situation in life you need to run on the appropriate level of emotion. Too much emotional 'leakage' into a experience can spoil the experience. You make great strides towards confidence when you begin to relax in a greater range of situations.

2) Being cool. The second part of self confidence is about being able to relax with uncertainty. To be 'cool' in a situation really means relaxing with not knowing how things will pan out. If you truly tolerate uncertainty, you can do pretty much anything.

3) Not being too concerned with what others think of you. You know when you imagine what some place is going to be like before you go there but when you get there it is totally different to your imagination? That's how reliable your imagination is! Stop trusting your imagination so much. I've long since stopped bothering to imagine what others think of me because so often I've turned out to be wrong.

4) Being specific - where do you want confidence? 'Confidence' is meaningless until you tie it to something specific. You are already confident that you can read these words or can switch a light on and off. So you don't need more confidence everywhere. To get what you want in life you have to establish exactly what you do want. Where do you want confidence in your life? Think about the specific situations now and write them down. You beginning to steer your brain towards confidence.

5) Understanding that what you expect is what you get. Your brain is an organ that needs clear goals to work towards. When a task has been set in your brain it will do everything it can do to bring about the completion of that task. If you've tried to recall someone's name but can't, hours later you'll often find their name pops into your head.

The 'trying to recall' experience set the task or blueprint for your brain's future subconscious behaviour which eventually produced the name for you - when you weren't thinking about it consciously. You can use this natural mechanism to start feeling more confident. But, to ensure you set the right task for your subconscious mind, the next point is vital.

6) Don't task your mind with negatives. Instead of: 'I don't want to screw up' (which sets the task of 'screwing up' for your brain), set the blueprint for what you do want! Your brain doesn't work towards what to do by being told what not to do. And nature has given you a wonderful natural tool to set the right task blueprints with.

7) Use nature's goal-setter: Now you understand how vital it is to set the right task for you brain, you need to know how to do this reliably. Good hypnosis will strongly 'program' the right blueprint in your mind through the use of your imagination. If you powerfully imagine feeling confident and relaxed while in a relaxed hypnotic state it will be hard for your unconscious mind to do anything else. The blueprint for relaxation has been set firmly into your subconscious mind.

3 simple strategies to get you feeling confident quickly:

1) Think specifically of the time/place/situation you want to feel confident in. Remember 'confidence' doesn't mean anything until you attach it to something specific.

2) Focus on words in your mind right now that describe how you do want to be in that time and place. Maybe words such as 'calm', 'relaxed' or 'focused'. Remember your brain works on clear positive instructions.

3) Close your eyes for as long as you like and think about how those words feel. Then, imagine the situation itself and rehearse it in your mind feeling confident and relaxed. This way you set the right blueprint or 'task' for your unconscious mind.

You can repeat this often to make it more effective and use it with as many areas of your life as you need to. If you listen to a hypnotic cd or download that can make the benefits even more powerful (see my profile below). So if you feel like you'd be blessed with less confidence than some other people you can start redressing the balance by using your mind in the right way right now.

It took me years to learn how to be more confident - now you can do it in a fraction of the time. You Can Attract Good luck, And Become A Good Luck Magnet!

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Article by Mark Tyrrell of Hypnosis Downloads.com.

5 Hypnosis Myths Exposed

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5 Hypnosis Myths Exploded

OVER the years, hypnosis has picked up all sorts of weird associations from stage hypnotists, the media and superstition. This is a great shame, because in reality, hypnosis is your single most effective tool for change. Hypnosis is your birthright, and you should know how to use it so it doesn't use you. Here we dispel the biggest hypnosis myths.

Hypnosis Myth 1) All hypnosis is the same

As with anything, hypnosis can be good, bad or indifferent. The most common is old-style authoritarian hypnosis of the type "You are getting sleepy, you are feeling confident". Unsurprisingly, this sort of hypnosis doesn't work well with many people. Good hypnosis uses subtle psychological principles and advanced communication patterns.

It's like the difference between a football coach who thinks you'll perform best if he yells at you, compared with the more elegant style of a great leader who knows that to get the best from his people, he needs to understand motivation, to cajole, encourage and reward.

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Hypnosis Myth 2) Subliminals work

Subliminals are words that you can't hear. Common sense says they shouldn't work, and there's no research proving that they do.

Hypnosis Myth 3) Some people can't be hypnotized

The only reason you can't be hypnotized is if you are incapable of paying attention due to extremely low IQ or brain damage. That's not to say that every hypnotist can hypnotize you however. The more flexible the hypnotist, the more effective she will be with the largest number of people.

Hypnosis Myth 4) Hypnosis is something weird that other people do to you

If you couldn't go into hypnosis, you wouldn't be able to sleep, to learn, or get nervous through 'negative self hypnosis'. (You know when you imagine things going wrong and it makes you feel anxious? Well that's self hypnosis!)

Hypnosis is simply a deliberate utilization of the REM (Rapid Eye Movement) or dream state. We're not giving people medication here – if it wasn't a natural ability, hypnosis wouldn't work!

Hypnosis Myth 5) You lose control in hypnosis

Crazy news stories, stage hypnotists and gossip have created the illusion that you lose control in hypnosis. In fact, when hypnotized, you are relaxed and focused – and able to choose to get up and walk away at any time. You choose to give your attention to the hypnotist, and you can withdraw it at any time.

If you have been scared of hypnosis in the past, this article has hopefully convinced you to at least give it a try. But remember, ensure what you're getting is the real thing. Visit www.hypnosisdownloads.com

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Article by Mark Tyrrell of Hypnosis Downloads.com.

7 Quick Tips For Public Speaking.. Quick Here...

7 Public Speaking Survival Tips

I used to be terrified of public speaking - now it's natural and fun.

Dry mouth, fast heart, sweaty palms, blank mind - yeah I've been there! It's easy to fear public speaking. But I was never just content with overcoming fear. I wanted to be a great speaker. What I needed was a way of calming down and applying simple techniques and strategies to talk like a pro.

When I'd learned to relax (more of that later) I learned and applied the following four steps.

1. Reassure your audience - they need to know you know your stuff and you are human!
2. Hook them by being interesting and relevant. Tell them why what you are saying is relevant to them.
3. Inspire them by giving them information and ways of seeing that are new and applicable.
4. Leave them on a high by telling a story them encapsulates your central message.

How do you become confident enough to apply the four steps?

Here's some tips some of which are practical some of which are to do with the way you think about your public presentations and also how you can start to change the way you feel about them.

Tip One

Breath your way to calm. When you breath out you relax that's why people sigh when they're stressed.

Breathing in without breathing out causes hyperventilation and worsens anxiety. Just before your speech take five minutes breathing in to the count of seven and out to the count of eleven (quick count-not seconds!). On the out breath hold it a second before breathing in again. This will produce quick and lasting calm. Remember extending the out breath calms you down.

Tip Two

You have a responsibility as the presenter but relax you don't carry all the responsibility. Presenting is a team effort. Audiences are responsible for politeness, extending their attention and attempting to learn. It's not all you-it's a meeting of two halves. Never mind how they judge you. How do you judge them?

Tip Three

Use metaphor and stories. We all experience life metaphorically. The most technical logical person spends at least two hours a night dreaming! Talk detail if necessary but present patterns with metaphors. Folk from 4 to 104 love stories. Use em.

Tip four

Captivate attention by using words that evoke all the senses. Describe how things look, sound, feel, smell and taste. Paint pictures and sensations in their minds with your words.

Tip Five

Vary your voice tonality and speed of delivery. Keep them alert and engaged. Convey energy when need be and slow down when you need to 'draw them in close.' You are the conductor to their orchestra. And pepper your talk with humour. Your willingness to be funny shows personal confidence and confidence is contagious.

Tip Six

Tell them what they are going to get. What they are currently getting and then what they have got from you. Sell your sizzle!

Tip Seven

Watch and learn from other great speakers until compelling, relaxed speaking is a part of you.

Rehearse positively. You need to rehearse how your going to feel as well as what you are going to present. Don't think about your forthcoming presentation whilst feeling nervous as this creates an instinctive association between fear and presenting. This natural negative self-hypnosis is very common with nervous speakers.

Hypnotically rehearse your speech whilst feeling relaxed. This produces the right 'blueprint' in your mind. In fact when you do this enough times it actually becomes hard to be nervous!

All great speakers know how to use great self-hypnotic rehearsal. Hypnosis changes attitudes and can bring emotion under control. I used hypnosis, to change my instincts around public speaking. Now I just can't get nervous whether it's 50 or 500 people. The world needs great communicators. Go for it!

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Article by Mark Tyrrell of Hypnosis Downloads.com.

7 Ways To Lose That Shyness

7 Ways to Soothe your Shyness

Shy people instinctively know that they are missing out.

Shyness equals lost opportunities, less pleasure and fewer social connections.

Shyness can be crippling but there are tried and tested ways to make it a thing of the past.

When I was fifteen I was shy.

I recall an attractive girl attempting to engage me in conversation.

My shyness made me focus on me instead of her.
I heard my own voice but not hers and I thought about what I was trying to say instead of what she was trying to say.

The formula for shyness is "too much focus on the self" plus anxiety.
To make it even more unpleasant, sometimes when you are feeling shy you experience physical sensations which 'hijack' your calm logical self.

My pulse raced, my mouth dried up and I felt like the village idiot!

I couldn't think what to say so I said nothing apart from making barely audible grunting noises!

When I detected pity in her eyes (or was it contempt, or boredom) I mumbled my excuse and got out of there.

I hated being shy and was determined to change it.

How shyness is developed and maintained

Shyness really is a combination of social anxiety and social conditioning.
To overcome shyness you need to learn to relax socially.

This enables you to direct your attention away from yourself and gives you the space to practice certain conversational skills.

In most cases, the heightened emotions of socializing when young simply condition the sufferer to respond to social events with fear, instead of excitement and pleasure.

Relaxed socializing is so pleasurable, not to say productive, but it is an advantage denied to many until they learn to relax.

To start reducing your own shyness, I want you to absorb the following tips and ideas and start to put them into practice:

1) Think about the way you feel and behave around familiar people you are comfortable and spontaneous around.
It's that feeling transferred to new people and situations that equates to your emerging social confidence.

2) Focus your attention away from yourself.
Sure, you can think a little bit about how you are coming across, but if all your focus is on your own words and feelings then you might as well be by yourself.
Notice what other people are wearing and make a mental note, listen to their conversation, imagine where they might live, make a point of remembering names.

Not only does this give you more to talk about, it also 'dilutes' social anxiety leaving you feeling calmer.

3) Ask people open questions.
Many people like to talk about themselves and will find you interesting if you find them interesting.
Ask questions that require more than a 'yes'/'no' response such as 'What do you like about this place?' rather than: 'Do you like this place?'
Once they've answered use 'add-on' questions connected to the first such as: 'What other places do you like in this city.?'
Next you can express your views. This is a great way to get the conversation going.
If the conversation doesn't 'take' then no matter, you've done your bit.

4) Stop trusting your imagination so much!
Have you ever had an imaginary picture in your mind of a holiday destination only to arrive and find the reality is different from the way you had imagined?
That's how reliable imagination is.

Stop imagining what others think.

I do lots of public speaking and I've long since stopped trying to second guess what others think of me - it's just too painful.

Besides, what a person thinks about you has a lot more to do with who they are than who you are.

5) Stop using 'all or nothing' thinking.
The 'completely this/completely that' style of thought occurs when you are emotional.
People who are depressed, angry or anxious see reality in terms of differing extremes, simplistic all or nothing terms.
An angry person is 'right' and you are 'wrong'; the depressed person feels like a 'failure' while others are a 'success'.
In reality, life is composed of infinite gray areas.
So stop fearing that you might say the 'wrong' thing!
Or that people will 'hate' you.

Once you start to relax more socially you'll notice much less black or white thinking because anxiety actually causes you to think in all or nothing terms.

6) Take your time. You don't have to blurt things out.
Ask questions and if questions are asked of you can take time to consider your response (within reason).
Don't just blurt out what you think might be the 'right' answer. A slow answer is a relaxed answer.

7) Finally, use hypnotic rehearsal.
Hypnosis is the quickest way to change your instinctive/emotional response to any situation. Only think about meeting others when your mind and body is relaxed.
This conditions you to associate relaxation with being around new people.
In fact you'll find that when you relax deeply enough often enough whilst hypnotically rehearsing being comfortable around others you'll reach the point where you just can't be shy any more! This is what I call a 'happy inability!'

I now love meeting new people and suspect that my current social confidence would be unrecognizable to my fifteen year old self.

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What Women Want in a Boyfriend... Dominant Male Body Language..

The ONLY Secret To Success
Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

There is only one secret to success in life, and it's NOT what you think it is.

It is NOT:

- Hard work;
- Persistence;
- Attitude;
- Confidence;
- Focus;
- Positive thinking;
- Trying lots of things and keeping what works;
- Finding what you love doing and becoming good at it.
-
It's none of the above!

Although all of those things are important, the one and the only secret to success in life is much simpler.

Ready?

I am about to tell you what it is.

Here we go:

To become truly successful in life, you must STOP doing what you don't like doing.

Think about it: you can do something that you are good at, and even become reasonably successful at it. But if you don't like doing it, are you truly successful?

With enough hard work you can become financially secure and well off. But if you don't like doing what you are doing, is it really worth it?

You can find what you love doing and become good at it.

But if your life is full of other things that you *hate* doing, are you truly, ultimately successful?

Now, look at this definition:

Success is when you don't do anything you don't like doing.

What does this mean?

It means that your life is a continuous experience of joy and pleasure.
When you don't do ANYTHING that you don't like doing, it means you enjoy EVERYTHING that you do.

Now, tell me if there can be a better way of living the life of happiness than only doing the things that you enjoy and never having the need to do anything you don't like.

You can tell me that it is impossible to never do the things you don't like: who will wash the dishes and clean the house?

But that's exactly what it's all about: if you don't like doing those things, you CAN arrange the world in such a way that somebody else will do the things you don't like doing. You simply PAY them for doing that.

So, the only secret to success is still about money?

No.
It's about DIRECTION.
It gives you clarity on what success really means.

Not success in general - your own, personal success.
The one and only secret to your one and only success.
You own it now.

"The less there are things in your life that you don't like doing, the more successful you are."

Simple.

Now you know.

You can look at the things in your life that you are doing and see how you can sort it out in such a way that you don't have to do anything you don't like. There IS a way. You must just think HOW.

It may take a bit of time. But you know what... Time is all we truly own in this life. We come to this world naked and leave it with nothing. Our time on this Earth is what we call, LIFE.

It is worth spending some time having the most of your time filled by only those things you LOVE, isn't it?

Your success is waiting for you.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

Her latest book "12 Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you exactly how you can have MORE love, MORE money and MORE success in your life.

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Hypnosis - Self Hypnosis Secrets

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It's about conversational hypnosis..

Here is some of the detail that I found out while I was researching this subject..

Conversational Hypnosis Protocol, a closely held and powerful secret.

The powerful “hypnotic triple” command that SWAT teams use to force compliance … even in a fire-fight with hardened criminals.

How an instant rapport technique will get even strangers to open up to you … reveal their inner longings …. and give you all the clues you need to persuade them to do as you say.

The conversational way to get a sales prospect to imagine the intense feelings of owning what you are selling, so they naturally feel compelled to buy right now!

You can help them intensify the feelings so strongly that all objections simply melt away.

The easiest way to join the elite group of “hypnotic persuasion experts” by using their secret patterns for influence …. (it's easier than you think).

Create an instant trigger to unleash your subjects deepest desires…. and how to point them in your direction…
(These innovative techniques are more refined and more powerful than any other).

A simple technique that creates amnesia for any objection your subject may have to your suggestions… they simply forget to remember what it was that might have stopped them from following your suggestions.

What it means when your subject “talks with their hands” and how to use their gestures to literally get inside their head.

How to know if a subject is “talking to themselves” with internal dialogue … and how to join that dialogue so that your voice seems like it comes from inside their own mind!

Now I don't know if this information might be useful to people, but it is to me.

I think if you want to, you may find this course useful.

How To Attract A Beautiful Woman

Say... you see a wonderful woman.
She is just your type, you know, the kind of girl you would love to meet.
You suddenly realise this is a girl you want to to chat with, to ask her out for coffee or a drink...

Most guys would just look over with that cocky grin, or worse, that look of hope like a deer caught in the headlights of a speeding car at night, and to the best of their ability say something along the lines of: “Hey, how you doing? If you're like, maybe free this Saturday night, how about the two of us going out to dinner or something?
We could maybe have a really good time?”

Ding Dong!!! Wrong!!! Odds are way less than 5% that they will get the date or even a phone number from this babe.
Women need to be slowly introduced to the wonders of your companionship, they aren’t walking around like a guy does, ready to fall in love with the first girl we meet.

They need to be treated with care and patience.

Women say they can make up their minds whether or not they are going to go anywhere with a guy, in the first 12 seconds of taking notice of you...

You now know you have no chance at this point...

NEWSFLASH!! Hope is at hand..!!!
nope, not that.. :)

First, we need to understand a very basic fact.

Women are naturally, automatically attracted to guys that are confident and comfortable with themselves and with them.

Thousands of years of “Survival Instinct” subconsciously and sometimes even consciously, programmed into their heads.

Confident men, often referred to in psychological books as the “Alpha Male” are viewed by females as the natural born leaders.

They’re the strong and self reliant providers and that’s what they instinctively want to attract to themselves and what they feel safe being attracted to.

It’s all a matter of mentally programmed survival instinct.

Plus, women like to feel like women and want to be around a guy who makes them feel like a woman.
That’s accomplished by a dude that seems strong, powerful, secure, and has his "proverbial" together.

So, does this mean that if we weren’t born with these natural personality traits, then we are simply out of luck and aren't going to get the babes?

Well, that’s what it used to mean.
But now we have a couple of secret weapons that’ll change your life and your luck with the ladies forever.

You see, somewhere along the road most of us somehow got crossed wiring.

It could be a parent, or sibling, maybe a relative or neighbor. Perhaps it was a teacher, or some other culturally accepted authority figure, maybe even a total stranger.

Or, as is most often the case, we simply did it to ourselves.

The human mind is like a computer – whatever you program into the computer, is what you are going to get out of it.

So, a misunderstanding with a friend, a harsh comment by a teacher, a cruel word by a parent, or even simply being turned down when making an early attempt to steal a kiss or hold a girl's hand while walking, can create devastating effects.

Left alone and unchallenged, they will debilitate and subconsciously handicap a guy for life, until he takes the time to go back in and reprogram this information and replace it with the proper data that will be useful and effective for him to run a successful love life!

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Sexual Strategies

Sexual Strategies Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

Have you ever thought WHY men’s and women’s sexual strategies are so different?- Why men want sex and women want love?-

Why there are NO books teaching women how to get one-night stands?-
Why women complain about men not loving them enough - but refusing to make love?
If you’ve ever been frustrated with the opposite gender, I feel for you.
I’ve been there, too.

In fact, for nearly two decades of my life I was completely clueless on what was going on between men and women - with disastrous results.
Then I decided I’d had enough and I wanted to learn what the other gender was REALLY looking for and HOW one could master that.
In short, I wanted to know what makes men and women tick.
This is what I learned and what every man and woman must know.

Our sexual strategies are deeply imprinted in our SUBCONSCIOUS.
We cannot CHANGE what is there.
We cannot CHOOSE whom we feel attracted to.
We just FEEL it. Why?

Because, from Mother Nature’s point of view, the purpose of life is LIFE itself. It’s procreation.
In other words, to keep the human race thriving, men and women should have sex and have children.
To make men and women have sex Mother Nature created a mechanism, which drives males and females towards one another.
This mechanism is what we routinely call LOVE, or attraction.

Attraction is actually a cocktail of certain hormones generated in our bodies in the presence of someone who appears to be good genes - in other words, a person of the opposite gender who seems to have the capacity of producing a healthy offspring that will survive.

Those hormones make us feel euphoric and excited, and we feel an enormous urge to get in close contact with the person we are attracted to.
This is really what love is all about.
It’s just the means of making us have sex with each other and make babies.

All those poems about the wonders of love are written about the condition of a human being under the influence of a powerful mix of natural drugs.
And yes, you hit a high!
Anyone who’s been in love can confirm that.
The thing you must understand is that this process is COMPLETELY UNCONTROLLABLE.

We cannot CHOOSE who we fall in love with.
This is because the purpose of procreation is so important that Mother Nature cannot rely on our recently developed intellectual capacities to make the right choice.
Instead, it uses the wisdom of generations BEFORE us to make the choice FOR us.
The mechanism of sexual attraction is firmly imprinted in our GENETIC MEMORY.

We are attracted to certain patterns of behavior and physical characteristics.
When we come across those patterns in real life, we feel attraction to this person - and we cannot help it.With all advances in modern science and birth control, we still have the same biological hardware as our pre-historical ancestors.

Scientists say that we have the same bodies as our forebears some 50,000 years ago.
It means that when you fall in love (or lust), you do it the same way as cavemen and cavewomen did.
You simply FEEL it.

You cannot CONVINCE yourself to fall in love – you either feel it, or not.
So, why men and women use such different sexual strategies?
Why men want sex and women want love?
Because men and women ARE different.
Not better or worse, but different.

A man can produce a child every time he has sex, and a woman can only produce a child only every second year or so.
So for a man, there are no adverse consequences for having sex with as many women as he wants - the more children he produces, the higher his chance to procreate.
For a woman, it’s different.

She needs to be selective to secure the best genes for her child.
If she makes a wrong choice and falls pregnant from a man with bad genes, her offspring may not survive into adulthood.
And she can only produce about 10 children during her lifetime.
This is why men’s and women’s sexual strategies are so different.

Men seek quantity; women seek quality.
Men seek abundance of sex, women - abundance of admirers.
This is absolutely NATURAL.
This is the reason why you are here today and alive – because your ancestors, men and women, acted true to their natural aspirations.

Millions of dead ends of the species vanished into oblivion – and every single one of YOUR ancestors managed to find a sexual partner and produce an offspring that survived into adulthood. -
If your female ancestors weren’t picky, you wouldn’t be here today.-
If your male ancestors weren’t trying to get laid at every opportunity, you might as well never be born.

The battle of the sexes is the battle for the survival of HUMANITY.

We are made this way.Accept it.
And learn to use it to your advantage!

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Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

Her latest book "12 Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after release.

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The Art Of Approaching

The most important part of dating and seduction has to do with being able to meet the kind of women you want.

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What Is Body Language? How To Use It Properly...

What Is Body Language?
Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

These days everybody talks about body language - performance experts, life coaches, gossip columnists and dating gurus.

But do you know what body language is?

The dictionary gives this definition to 'body language': "The gestures, postures, and facial expressions by which a person manifests various physical, mental, or emotional states and communicates nonverbally with others."

I have been interested in body language for years, and after reading a few dozens of books, all you need to know can be summarized in 4 simple points:

1. Body Language Is A Form Of Communication.

Whether you realize it or not, your body sends unmistakable signals to people around you.
You DO communicate VOLUMES of information about yourself with your posture, face expression and position of your arms and legs.

You do it ALL THE TIME. In other words, before you even open your mouth, the people around you have already made a certain opinion about you - and as you know, first impressions last.
Body language accounts for 55% of your communication with the people you actually talk to (and nearly 100% of your communication with the people you don't know yet).
The other 45% of your interactive communication is the VOICE TONE and ACTUAL WORDS.

The words themselves account for only 7% of your communication.
All in all, your body language and the tone of your voice make up a whopping 93% of your communication with other people!
This means that HOW you say it is 13 times MORE important than WHAT you say.
Most people are spending all their time thinking of WHAT to say.
While they could have learned only once HOW to say it - and say nearly anything with grandiose success. Want to know how? Read on.

2. There Is OPEN Body Language and CLOSED Body Language.

The definitions are transparent: 'open' body language makes you look like an open, accepting and friendly person, and 'closed' body language makes you look reserved, distant and unwelcoming.
When you want people to be attracted to you, use open body language.
When you want people to go away, use closed body language. It's THAT simple.

3. OPEN Body Language Means NO Crossing, Covering or Hiding

Open body language is easy to master: look them in the eyes, don't cross your arms or legs, don't cover your body, and don't hide your palms and eyes. That's it!
This is not too complicated, is it?

Let me break it down into pieces for you:-
LOOK THEM IN THE EYES: maintain eye contact at all times during your conversation.
Looking people in the eyes is the most important part of the open body language.
It has been scientifically proven that long gazes evoke the release of the same hormones that are produced when we are in love - they will feel attracted to you and won't even know why.-

KEEP YOUR PALMS OPEN: Keep your hands on the sides of your body; don't hide your hands in your pockets and don't sit on them.
Don't fold your arms or clench your fists.
Don't cover your body with your arms.
Don't grab a drink or handbag with both hands.
Don't touch your face, ears or neck - this shows insecurity and anxiety.
If you need to hold something in your hands, hold it with ONE hand only and keep it to the side, so your arm doesn't cover your body.
If the conversation is going to be longer than a couple of replicas, put down anything you hold. Get a shoulder bag to keep your hands free at all times.-
KEEP YOUR LEGS UNCROSSED: Don't cross your legs on any level. Keep them apart. - TURN YOUR BODY TOWARDS THEM: Turn your whole body to face them.
Point your feet towards them; turn your torso face-to-face, so the angle between you and them is minimal.-
STAND TALL: You appear more confident and assured when you do.-
REMOVE BARRIERS BETWEEN YOU AND THEM: Don't put chairs, or glasses, or anything else between you and the person you are talking to. Keep it open.-
SMILE EASILY: There is a world of difference between smiling easily and smiling all the time.Smiling all the time means you are feeling tense and trying to cover it up.
Smiling easily means you feel comfortable and can open up into smile any time you want.
If you tend to smile all the time when meeting strangers, try to deliberately DON'T smile.
Look them in the eyes, and keep a friendly, tall, and open posture - but DON'T SMILE.

When you master that, start smiling after a minute or two in your conversation.
Start practicing open body language with shop assistants and bank tellers: they are PAID to be nice to you.
Notice what a difference it has on your communication.

4. CLOSED Body Language Means Crossing, Covering or Hiding
Sometimes you don't want to attract certain people; this is what you need to do in such cases: - Don't look them in the eyes;- Fold your arms or hide your hands in the pockets;- Turn your body away from them;- Cross your legs and point your feet away from them;- Put barriers between you and them;- Frown, or smile all the time a strained smile. This will make them feel uncomfortable and they will try to avoid you.
You see, body language is not complicated at all.
In any social situation, you can see how the people around you feel.
Most of them will display 'closed' body language - and you know what it means, they feel uncomfortable and apprehensive.
Which means that if you display the 'open' body language, you will be irresistibly attractive. They won't know why but feel drawn to you.
People usually describe it as, "You have something special about you", or "a presence".
If you start consciously 'open' yourself to other people, you will notice the change in your communication almost immediately.
Open body language makes you appear more approachable and trustworthy.
It will also make you feel more comfortable and relaxed in any situation.
Remember, your body language tells MORE about you than your words.
Use it to your advantage!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Elena Solomon is a dating coach.Her latest book became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you exactly how you can use body language and other scientifically proven techniques to become more successful in dating and love.
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What Women Want
Copyright (C) 2007 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

A while ago, a guy wrote to me saying that if he knew what women wanted, he would write a book and retire rich.

What women want was a secret to this man for a long, LONG time.

Mel Gibson and his famous movie “What Women Want” haven’t quite answered this question.

In fact, this is exactly the answer to the question in his own words:

“After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate.”

I don’t know about you but this answer doesn’t quite cut it for me.
If I were a guy, I would need something more specific to succeed with women!

Fortunately for you, after reading this article, it will no longer be a mystery.
Because I am going to tell you EXACTLY what women want.

(I was thinking about writing a book and retiring rich… but decided to give this secret away for free for the good of the humanity.)

OK, let’s get to our nitty-gritty, shall we?

Generally, women want many things, including hot gossip and Italian shoes, but as far as men-women relationships are concerned, this is the one and the only women’s request:

They want strong, powerful, overwhelming EMOTIONS.

They want to be swept off their feet.

If you manage to deliver THAT, all other women’s desires and requirements become irrelevant: money, looks, height, education, status, or anything else men habitually put on the list of desired attributes - NONE of this really matters.

YES! A woman can fall hopelessly in love with a man who isn’t good looking, doesn’t have money, doesn’t have education, who is short, bald and old, as long as he manages to deliver these powerful EMOTIONS that women are craving.

Why?

Because her requirements for money and status come from the intellectual, or CONSCIOUS part of the brain - and the emotion of love, or attraction, comes from emotional, or SUBCONSCIOUS part of the brain.

In other words, she cannot help it.
She cannot decide NOT to be in love.
(Have you ever tried it yourself, to stop loving the person who you know isn’t good for you and who only brings you suffering and problems? How successful were these attempts?)

She doesn’t ‘step into’ love - she ‘falls into’ it.

It is absolutely imperative for you as a man to evoke strong emotions in a woman in order for her to fall in love with you.

And they don’t have to be positive emotions only - vice versa, an emotional roller coaster works the best.
In other words, hate is NOT the opposite of love - it’s its associate and partner.
Indifference is the opposite of love.
It is easier for you to make a woman that hates you, to fall in love with you, than a woman who has no feelings whatsoever towards you.

What most men do not realize is that a woman does not have to LIKE you, in order to fall in LOVE with you.

Yes, you’ve read it right: she may NOT like you but still fall in love with you.

Quite often, the reason why she doesn’t like you is the very reason why she falls in love with you.

Confused?

You should be.

What I realized is that although we LIKE people that are ‘like us’, we LOVE people that have something that we DON’T HAVE.

We are powerfully attracted to people that are DISTINCTIVELY DIFFERENT from us.

The MORE different they are, the STRONGER is our attraction to them.

Since they are different from us, which means they aren’t ‘like us’, chances are this difference is something that we don’t actually like.

The powerful emotion of attraction that overrides all women’s requirements to a potential partner and makes her do the things she would not tell her mother about, is only evoked in a female by a DOMINANT MALE.

In other words, the male she cannot control.

Women have in-built mechanism that reacts on the dominant male by making them weak at their knees and feeling swept off their feet - experiencing these all-powerful EMOTIONS they are after.

They respond to a predetermined pattern of behavior by falling in love with the person who exhibits this behavior.

And this pattern can be learned - this is what is commonly known as ‘dating skills’.

Do you want to drive women crazy about you - to the extent they disregard your looks, finances and social status?

It is possible and attainable.
And the best thing, you CAN do it.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

Her latest book "12 Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you EXACTLY how you can evoke strong emotions in women and make them fall in love with you - regardless of your looks, money and status.

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Relax. Visualize the result you might want to create.

Imagine a 3d picture of the result you desire, as if it was coming towards you now.

Contemplate its quality, feel how much you deserve this.

You see the colours in your 3d picture, and you can reach inside the picture, you can feel the pulse of energy driving the design.

Remove your personal needs from the 3d picture that has formed..

Look at the background of the picture, behind your 3d image of your desires..

Watch the background turning golden.. A golden background..

You can see connections forming between you and the image..

You see that your feelings for the 3d image are connecting you to the 3d image.

Feed the image with energy from the sun, and make it pulsate brighter..

Now you can see a Golden Ball... place the whole picture inside the Ball which is extremely light and flexible, like a bubble.

You see shimmers of golden light as you push the 3d image inside the golden Ball.

Now, let it float away, and watch as the Ball splits into two identical balls..

Each ball is alive, and duplicating itself...

This is not surprising to you because you know it can reproduce itself..

The Balls split into 4, then 8, 16, 32, 64, 128, 256, eventually there are so many you cannot follow where they are going.

They know where they are going, they are exact copies of your original desires.

Now.. Relax...


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How To Ruin Your Online Dating Success

Copyright (C) 2006 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

These days you seldom meet a single person who never tried online dating - unless they aren't Internet users.

Since you are reading this, I assume you ARE online - so this information can be crucial for your online dating success.

Most people placing personal ads on Internet dating sites seem to do everything to RUIN any of their chances for success. Are you one of them?

Here is how to ruin your online dating campaign:

1. CHOOSE A SLEAZY USER NAME

Dating sites usually display your user name in your personal profile. So, if you choose something like "hardcoreXXX" or "badgirl_69", you are sure to mess up your chances dramatically.

2. WRITE A TIMID MESSAGE

Every day I see people writing in their messages things like, "I hate this part but here it goes", "I never know what to write here" or simply "Ask me". Your personal message is the only thing in your profile that is UN-structured - the rest are usually just tick boxes. Make sure you don't say anything interesting here, so no one will feel compelled to learn more about you.

3. DON'T HAVE ANY PARTNER REQUREMENTS

Your requirements for a partner say VOLUMES about YOU. If you do not have any requirements for a partner, you will sound absolutely desperate. No one is attracted to desperate people.

4. DON'T UPLOAD A PHOTO

Most users of dating sites search for profiles with photos. If you do not upload your photo, no one will find your ad. It will also severely damage the chances of your "Hi's", "Virtual Kisses" or "Smiles" being answered.

5. DON'T PAY FOR PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP

Usually online dating sites will allow you to place your personal ad for free, but to write to other singles, you have to buy a subscription. Although the price of subscription is cheaper than the price of a movie ticket and popcorn, you should not be tempted. By sticking with the free membership, you ensure you cannot contact anyone. Also some sites place ads of premium members on top of the search results. If you do not pay, your ad will appear on the page 247 of the search results - which will make it nearly impossible to find.

6. DON'T CONTACT OTHER MEMBERS

Most online dating services will allow you to contact other members for free by sending a "Hi", "Virtual Kiss", "Icebreaker" or "Smile" - an expression of interest, to which the other member can respond. Don't send any of those to anyone, or they may just answer positively. Think only about how bad would you feel if they rejected your advances.

7. DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR AD

Don't attempt to change anything in your ad. If you change something, it may just start working. Keep with what doesn't produce any results.

8. DON'T LOGIN TO THE WEBSITE - EVER

Once you placed your personal ad, immediately forget about it - and forget your user name and password, too. Don't login to the website again. If you do, your ad may jump to the top of the search results and someone may write to you. Don't take this risk. Just place the ad and forget about it.

If you follow this simple guidance, I can guarantee that you will flawlessly ruin any chances for success with online dating sites and your love life will stay just the way it is!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

Her latest book "12 Simple Rules" became #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in the leading ebook distribution service in just ONE WEEK after the release. It shows you exactly how you can have MORE love, MORE money and MORE success in your life.
Don't read this book if you want to keep your life just the way it is.

Copyright (C) 2006 Elena Solomon, author of 12 Simple Rules

Luck Quotes

Some Luck quotes for you...




Robert Collier:
All of us have bad luck and good luck. The man who persists through the bad luck - who keeps right on going - is the man who is there when the good luck comes - and is ready to receive it.

Roy D. Chapin Jr.:
Be ready when opportunity comes...Luck is the time when preparation and opportunity meet.

R. E. Shay:
Depend on the rabbit's foot if you will, but remember it didn't work for the rabbit.

Laurence J. Peter:
Don't believe in miracles - depend on them.

Og Mandino:
Each misfortune you encounter will carry in it the seed of tomorrow's good luck.

Kelley Vicstrom:
Each of my days are miracles. I won't waste my day; I won't throw away miracle.

Nancy Gibbs:
For the truly faithful, no miracle is necessary.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:
Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.

Thomas Hardy:
Some folk want their luck buttered.

Sam Goldwyn:
The harder I work, the luckier I get.

Ralph Waldo Emerson:
The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common.

Walt Whitman:
To me every hour of the light and dark is a miracle. Every cubic inch of space is a miracle.

Jean Cocteau:
We must believe in luck. For how else can we explain the success of those we don't like?

Dr. Armand Hammer:
When I work fourteen hours a day, seven days a week, I get lucky.

Willa Cather:
Where there is great love there are always miracles

Can You Really Create Your Own Luck..

Can You Really Create Your LUCK?

Have you ever come across people who seem to be lucky in just about every situation and circumstance?

They find a good parking space when not even bad ones are available.

They just happen to find a $50 bill on the pavement.

By some uncanny coincidence, they meet the right people at just the right time.

They land their dream jobs.

They triumph over misfortune.

They get the girl (or guy) in the end -just like in the movies.

We consider people lucky when, using no apparent effort, they just automatically run into favorable situations that we call luck.

Luck isn't necessarily a result of karma or coincidence.

I believe that these lucky people actually "unconsciously generate" their so-called luck.

They think and behave in ways that create good fortune in their lives.

A large part of this is through a positive attitude or mindset, and how better to instill a positive attitude or mindset than through affirmations?

Anthony Robbins relates the story of a man who, after using a wealth affirmation for just a few days, won several million dollars in a state lottery.

Some people would call that a coincidence.
Some would call it providence.
But whatever you call it, it's certainly worthy of further investigation.
Serendipity is defined as the faculty or phenomenon of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for.
That, too, is something we call luck.
But what if you could find valuable or agreeable things that you actually are seeking -and what if you could do it at will?
There are affirmation techniques that empower you to achieve your desires and dreams in ways that appear to be pure luck.
You can actually attract good luck in ever area of your life - and make it look easy while doing it.

Richard Wiseman, the head of a psychology research department at the University of Hertfordshire in England, and author of the book, "The Luck Factor," did in-depth studies with his colleagues at the university's Perrott-Warrick Research Unit focusing on what makes some people lucky and others not.
After conducting hundreds of experiments and thousands of interviews, he discovered that lucky people think and behave in ways that create good fortune in their lives.

They are
(1) Particularly open to possibility; and
(2) they expect good fortune to come their way.
These 2 cornerstones are the basis of the following power affirmations that maximize your mind's potential for bringing good luck into your life:

I am always in the right place at the right time.*
I expect the best and I get it NOW!*
I always get everything that is for my highest good.*
Everything good is coming to me easily and effortlessly.*
I am divinely guided in all I do.*
I expect life to give me what is best for me.*
I deserve the best and it comes to me NOW!*
This is a rich universe and there is plenty for all of us.*
I now eagerly await my greatest good.*
I expect good fortune every moment of my life.*
I envision only that which is for my highest good.*
My highest good is manifesting in my life right now.*
His wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance.
All my needs, desires and goals are met instantaneously because I am one with God, and God is everything.
Note that many of the above affirmations call upon your "highest good."
That's because when you summon your highest good, amazing things can happen.

The last in the above list is the word-for-word affirmation Anthony Robbins personally used.

He went from being in a state of poverty, living in a tiny one-bedroom apartment (where he used to wash dishes in the bath tub), being clinically obese and having no girlfriend - to becoming a millionaire, achieving his ideal weight and becoming physically fit, living in a real-life castle (with turrets) by the ocean with his dream woman -- all within a year's time.

TIP: As luck would have it, there's a revolutionary approach to affirmations that virtually turns you into a luck magnet.
If you go here, you'll discover how to improve your odds at becoming lucky in every area of your life.
If you want to follow Henry David Thoreau's suggestion about sculpting your life by changing your thoughts, you may want to receive some help from software that's designed to add octane power to your affirmations.
According to Chuck Gallozzi, author of "Roadblocks to Happiness and How to Overcome Them," you'll find "no finer computer program on affirmations than Jeff Staniforth's Sculptor."

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Good Luck, Attract Luck, Create Your Luck...

New research shows that happiness precedes success (no matter how you define it) and NOT the other way around.

That is a very, very surprising and non intuitive finding...

As Wayne Dyer said:

"Happiness is the Way"

Original Article is here...

Is "happiness" the "Luck Magnet?"

hmmm...

Law of Attraction, Luck, Money...

Some information you will find interesting...

From The Magnet, Attractionville
Living consciously means that you deliberately order what you wish the universe to deliver to you and that your choices reflect your intention.

Living unconsciously means that do not stand up for your desires and allow yourself to be served whatever odds and ends happen to be left in the back of the refrigerator.

Learn more about the Law of Attraction at Attractionville!

Attract Luck, Money, Health...The Law of Attraction...

This is a great site with links to help anyone looking for the "system" of luck, money, health, whatever you want...

By that I mean, And I quote from this site...

The energy behind it was not aligned with what I wanted to do. It was all wrong, it was all to get clients or impress clients; this was so transparent.

Funnily enough none of the leads became my clients and my clients didn't stay clients very long either.

It's very easy to do something because it is the "good idea". Or as Drew Rozell of Attractionville says:

"the good ideas tend to be the things that hold us back.....the good idea is the thing that you think will get you something; it's strategic; not authentic"

Learn more about the "Law of Attraction" at Attractionville!

Julie Plenty helps creative people achieve their goals using the Law of Attraction and authentic and inspired goal setting. Read more articles on how to make the Law of Attraction work for you by visiting: http://lawofattraction.blogharbor.com

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How do you think the rich became rich?
Do you think they are more intelligent than you?

Or were they born into wealthy families? Or perhaps they have a lucky charm and everything goes their way.

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Job ? Work Stress? High Blood Pressure? Good Luck!

Want to lower job or work stress or blood pressure fast? It's Good luck you have arrived on this site, because some time ago, I began sorting information about this subject.
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Are you looking for a way to lower your blood pressure a few points?
To make a real difference to how you feel?

You are in Luck.

TIP: Try breathing more slowly and deeply when you think your pressure might be rising.
Even better, doing this for a few minutes each day may help keep it under control.

Too simple to be true?

No, the good luck factor is in the details. In fact, current research links breathing and blood pressure. Research that proves beyond doubt that this works and major benefits are available.

Like meditation, slow breathing may calm that part of the nervous system responsible for the body’s fight-or-flight response.

Turning down this nervous activity can relax small arteries.
This allows blood to move through them more easily, and so lowers blood pressure.

Sounds simple?

Lucky it is simple,because that is exactly why it works so well...


For proof that this works, Read on...

From Harvard Medical School Heart Newsletter...
Volume 13. Number 3 November 2002

Inspiring news about blood pressure control...

Looking for a way to lower your blood pressure a few points? Try breathing more slowly and deeply when you think your pressure might be rising. Even better, doing this for a few minutes each day may help keep it under control.

Too simple to be true? In fact, a chain of research links breathing and blood pressure. Like meditation, slow breathing may calm that part of the nervous system responsible for the body’s fight-or-flight response. Turning down its activity can relax small arteries. This allows blood to move through them more easily, and so lowers blood pressure.

Most of us breathe 15-20 times a minute when resting, and we take our breaths from high in the chest. People under stress and those with a variety of ailments take faster, more shallow breaths. Slow breathing is 10 or fewer breaths a minute, with an emphasis on breathing from down in the belly.

You can teach yourself to do this. Sit quietly for a few minutes. Once you are relaxed, inhale deeply for a count of two or three. Then breathe out slowly, taking at least five or six seconds to expel your air. Blowing out through pursed lips can help extend your exhalation. Let your belly muscles do the work- a hand placed on your abdomen should move more than a hand on your chest.

Slow, rhythmic breathing may also help people with congestive heart failure. A study in the January15, 2002, Circulation showed that slow, deep breathing increased the amount of oxygen in the blood of people with heart failure. It also improved their ability to exercise or move around without getting exhausted.

Keep in mind that slow breathing hasn’t been studied nearly as well as more conventional treatments for high blood pressure or heart failure. Nor has it been shown to reduce or prevent the complications connected with them.

That said, if you have the discipline to teach yourself slow breathing, this technique could offer another avenue to controlling blood pressure or living with heart failure.

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Can You Really Create Your LUCK?

Have you ever come across people who seem to be lucky in just about every situation and circumstance?

They find a good parking space when not even bad ones are available.

They just happen to find a $50 bill on the pavement. By some uncanny coincidence, they meet the right people at just the right time. They land their dream jobs. They triumph over misfortune. They get the girl (or guy) in the end -just like in movies with happy endings.

We consider people lucky when, using no apparent effort, they just automatically run into favorable situations that we call luck.
Luck isn't necessarily a result of karma or coincidence.
I believe that these lucky people actually "unconsciously generate" their so-called luck.

They think and behave in ways that create good fortune in their lives.

A large part of this is through a positive attitude or mindset, and how better to instill a positive attitude or mindset than through affirmations?

Anthony Robbins relates the story of a man who, after using a wealth affirmation for just a few days, won several million dollars in a state lottery. Some people would call that a coincidence. Some would call it providence. But whatever you call it, it's certainly worthy of further investigation.

Serendipity is defined as the faculty or phenomenon of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for. That, too, is something we call luck. But what if you could find valuable or agreeable things that you actually are seeking -and what if you could do it at will?

There are affirmation techniques that empower you to achieve your desires and dreams in ways that appear to be pure luck. You can actually attract good luck in ever area of your life - and make it look easy while doing it.

Richard Wiseman, the head of a psychology research department at the University of Hertfordshire in England, and author of the book, "The Luck Factor," did in-depth studies with his colleagues at the university's Perrott-Warrick Research Unit focusing on what makes some people lucky and others not. After conducting hundreds of experiments and thousands of interviews, he discovered that lucky people think and behave in ways that create good fortune in their lives. They are 1) particularly open to possibility; and 2) they expect good fortune to come their way.

These 2 cornerstones are the basis of the following power affirmations that maximize your mind's potential for bringing good luck into your life:

* I am always in the right place at the right time.
* I expect the best and I get it NOW!
* I always get everything that is for my highest good.
* Everything good is coming to me easily and effortlessly.
* I am divinely guided in all I do.
* I expect life to give me what is best for me.
* I deserve the best and it comes to me NOW!
* This is a rich universe and there is plenty for all of us.
* I now eagerly await my greatest good.
* I expect good fortune every moment of my life.
* I am open to receive the abundant good that God has for me.
* God is the source of all my good, I look only to Him for my supply.
* I envision only that which is for my highest good.
* My highest good is manifesting in my life right now.

* God's wealth is circulating in my life. His wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance. All my needs, desires and goals are met instantaneously because I am one with God, and God is everything.

Note that many of the above affirmations call upon your "highest good." That's because when you summon your highest good, amazing things can happen.

The last in the above list is the word-for-word affirmation Anthony Robbins personally used. He went from being in a state of poverty, living in a tiny one-bedroom apartment (where he used to wash dishes in the bath tub), being clinically obese and having no girlfriend - to becoming a millionaire, achieving his ideal weight and becoming physically fit, living in a real-life castle (with turrets) by the ocean with his dream woman -- all within a year's time.

TIP: As luck would have it, there's a revolutionary approach to affirmations that virtually turns you into a luck magnet. When you go here, you'll discover how to improve your odds at becoming lucky in every area of your life.

If you want to follow Henry David Thoreau's suggestion about sculpting your life by changing your thoughts, you may want to receive some help from software that's designed to add octane power to your affirmations. According to Chuck Gallozzi, author of "Roadblocks to Happiness and How to Overcome Them," you'll find "no finer computer program on affirmations than Jeff Staniforth's Sculptor." Check it out here
Join the millions of People Around the World Who Have Discovered the Power of Affirmations. Send for FREE subscription of "Affirmations For The Mind" Tips and Techniques Newsletter, the premier publication on self-improvement & personal growth. Each issue contains powerful sample affirmations that have been tested and proven to get results. Click Here...



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The guide to getting lucky

BBC NEWS Magazine The loser's guide to getting lucky

Why do some people get all the luck while others never get the breaks they deserve?

A psychologist says he has discovered the answer.

"Ten years ago, I set out to examine luck."

"I wanted to know why some people are always in the right place at the right time, while others consistently experience ill fortune."

A study was set up, and one month later, the volunteers returned and described what had happened.
The results were dramatic: 80% of people were now happier, more satisfied with their lives and, perhaps most important of all, luckier.

The lucky people had become even luckier and the unlucky had become lucky.

"Finally, I had found the elusive luck factor!"


Here are Professor Wiseman's four top tips for becoming lucky:


Listen to your gut instincts - they are normally right.

Be open to new experiences and breaking your normal routine.

Spend a few moments each day remembering things that went well.

Visualise yourself being lucky before an important meeting or telephone call.

Luck is very often a self-fulfilling prophecy.

This post, we will investigate "Good luck" in relation to social, rational or spiritual viewpoint.

In an example of good luck, a person winning a lottery would generally be considered lucky, although a rationalist might point out that there was bound to be a winner sooner or later, and there was actually nothing lucky about someone winning - it was merely a probabilistic event. It is doubtful that the winner would agree with that analysis, however.

The open, generous and cheerful person is more likely to be classified by others as lucky.

There is also sometimes considered to be a spiritual, metaphysical, or supernatural bias towards experiencing events of good or ill fortune. In this sense some believe that one's own or another's good or bad luck can be influenced through spiritual means or by performing certain rituals or by avoiding certain (from a rational viewpoint non-relevant) situations.

From Wikipedia

Too busy working every day to earn real money?

Too busy working every day to earn real money?

You think you have problems?

I remember when the bank turned me down for a $2000 loan..

What I didn't tell them?
It was to pay my bills!
You can't live like that, day to day...

My wife called me, crying, because the electricity had been turned
off, and we had a newborn and a 2 year old at home..
She was handwashing nappies in cold water by hand, in a 40 degree heatwave...
While the food goes rotten in the fridge...

I just couldn't put up with it any longer!

How I found the way out of this mess...
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Relax. Visualize the result you might want to create.
Imagine a 3d picture of the result you desire, as if it was coming towards you now.
Contemplate its quality, feel how much you deserve this.
You see the colours in your 3d picture, and you can reach inside the picture, you can feel the pulse of energy driving the design.
Remove your personal needs from the 3d picture that has formed..
Look at the background of the picture, behind your 3d desires..
Watch the background turning golden.. A golden background..
You can see connections forming between you and the image..
You see that your feelings for the 3d image are connecting you to the 3d image.
Feed the image with energy from the sun, and make it pulsate brighter..
Now you can see a Golden Ball...
Place the whole picture inside the Ball which is extremely light and flexible, like a bubble.
You see shimmers of golden light as you push the 3d image inside the golden Ball.

Now, let it float away, and watch as the Ball splits into two identical bubbles...
The balloon is alive, and duplicating itself...
This is not surprising to you because you know it can reproduce..
The Balls split into 4, then 8, 16, 32, 64, 128, 256, eventually there are so many bubbles you cannot follow where they are going.
They know where they are going, they are exact copies of your original desires. Now.. Relax.

This LuckMagnet.mp3 should be listened to on your mp3 player, on your pc, or your phone, using headphones, on repeat.
Adjust the volume for a comfortable level, and relax and listen to it as long as you like...

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